From friends to life partners, who we spend time with and exchange energy with is among the most important decisions we make because it’s like choosing the mirror that will serve as your reflection. Though we are responsible for our own vibration, as energetic beings, we cannot help but integrate with the vibrations surrounding us. And the higher, the better.
Signs that someone will honour your boundaries, genuinely support your growth, celebrate your wins, hold you accountable, and point you toward your highest self and the greater good is someone who does so for themselves. One who openly and authentically supports others is selfless and radiates self-love. They often hold space for you to show up as your true self but won’t hesitate to guide or help you when necessary. It isn’t hard to feel safe and seen by such people. It is not that they are flawless, but they flow gracefully in their humanness and humbly accept themselves because beyond their shortcomings is their desire to grow and see others grow too.
If you’re lucky enough, this powerful support will not come from one person but from an uplifting community of mindful, soulful people who draw closer to awareness, share their spiritual discoveries, invite you to be more curious about your potential, and whose mere presence brings peace.
And above all, become the company that people seek. Create the space that nourishes others and the map that guides those who seek to know more about love. Like trees, the roots we nourish will ground us and feed the roots of those near us. May we all seek soils abundant in love and create a forest of uplifting, compassionate, and encouraging energy.
-NGONI SAID IT
