By Prof. Frederick Kasese
As parents, we have been entrusted with the sacred responsibility of raising our children in the way of the Lord. However, in today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to fall into the trap of subcontracting this critical task to others – maids, kindergarten, school teachers, or other caregivers.
But beware, dear parents. Outsourcing parenting comes with severe pitfalls:
1. Loss of intimacy: When we delegate parenting, we risk losing precious moments of connection with our children. Intimacy is built through shared experiences, laughter, and tears – not through delegation.
2. Misaligned values: Others may not share our values, beliefs, or worldview. By outsourcing parenting, we risk exposing our children to conflicting ideologies that may confuse or mislead them.
3. Lack of accountability: When we pass the buck, we absolve ourselves of responsibility. But parenting is our God-given duty. We must own up to our mistakes and learn from them.
4. Inconsistent discipline: Others may not discipline our children consistently or fairly, leading to confusion and potential behavioral problems.
5. Missed opportunities: By subcontracting parenting, we miss precious opportunities to model Christ-like behavior, teach biblical values, and shape our children’s character.
Remember, parenting is a divine calling, not a task to be outsourced. Let us embrace our responsibility, seeking wisdom and strength from God to raise our children in the way they should go.
“Train up a child in the way they should go, and when they are old they will not turn from it.” – Proverbs 22:6
May we be intentional, engaged, and faithful parents, raising a generation that honours God and blesses the world. Heavenly Coaching Clinic
